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An interesting read from the UK

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Via The Mirror:

Inside the secret sex dungeon that couples can hire to indulge their fantasies

The Gatwick Dungeon, situated near the airport, is filled with whips, benches, stocks, cuffs, a ‘school’ room, a cage and even a spanking bench …

“It’s all about being consensual and people understanding what they’re doing and doing it in a safe way and having lots of fun with it. …”

“If it was about violence then I would shut my place down tomorrow. If I thought that anything like that happened on my premises I would not allow people to use it.” …


Both Belle & Baton blister bums

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Ms. Baton

Ms. Sultrybelle

Mistresses Sultrybelle and Baton have announced that they will  be offering double sessions on February 5th and 6th in Glasgow. This will be Mistress Baton’s second visit to Scotland from South Africa.

Using different styles, each can cane extremely hard  with precise strokes.  They will also take it down a notch or two  depending on limits and tolerance. Administration of the strap or tawse  will be available along with role play and school scenes.

Mistresses Sultrybelle and Baton love what they do, and are quite proficient at it. Just ask anyone who has had their arse inflamed by either. It is a memorable experience.

Check out their websites, and contact either for information. Or, email Mistress Sultrybelle who is based in Glasgow.

Mistress Sultrybelle’s website.
Mistress Baton’s website.

Disciplinarian Discussion: The Sjambok

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The sjambok is a whip-like device that has, historically, been associated with South Africa.  When considering someone to author a piece on the sjambok, All Things Spanking immediately thought of Mistress Baton who is a South African Disciplinarian based in Gauteng. She graciously accepted our invitation.

Mistress Baston

Mistress Baton states that “BDSM, especially caning, is a passion of mine, not merely a pastime. It is one of my greatest purposes in life, to thrash as many eager bottoms as I can. I am a happy sadist. … strict, outspoken & dominant. A merciless, disciplinarian-type sadist and exhibitionist, who mostly plays fucking hard.” Please know, however, that Mistress Baton can adapt her style to accommodate limits. As in any BDSM play, communication is key to assure that all parties have a clear understanding of what will be done.

Mistress Baton does travel on occasion. She has announced an upcoming tour of the United Kingdom and may be touring Australia in the near future.

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The South African Sjambok

By Mistress Baton for All Things Spanking.  05 January 2018

An implement used often during impact play in my commercial dungeon, Strafkamer

Photo of some of the sjamboks referred to below. Sjamboks are numbered as referred to in the article.

 

Sjambok #1 on photo:

Sjamboks are still widely used here and are sold almost everywhere…from the cities and small towns to rural townships, one may find a sidewalk hawker offering these exact sjamboks, every couple of miles. It is the sjambok that is typically used on offenders in so-called ‘kangaroo courts’ and in urban townships.

They’re made from plastic, and are thus very whippy towards the tip. During BDSM play I find it quite difficult to wield with accuracy indoors (my dungeon space is too narrow). It is much easier to use outside, especially if the recipient lies down on the ground for a vertical downswing stroke.

Other shapes of plastic sjamboks are readily available at large supermarkets or hardware stores (Sjambok #4). This kind is most often used for personal protection around the home or in the car; even to discipline large, thick-skinned dogs like the so-called Boerboel. I find it a very nice sjambok to use during CP play sessions: though it appears too thick, it is in fact hollow and very light, manufactured from a durable plastic, enabling ease of control in terms of severity, from light to very hard application.

Sjambok #3 is a heavy, rubber sjambok, similar to the standard issue, South African Police Force weapon, used for crowd control during times before CP was banned judicially in the mid-90s. The police sjamboks were shorter though, with a thicker, rigid tip.

 

South African Police Force sjambok

 

Personally, it is unlikely that I will choose the police-style sjamboks for a BDSM play, due to safety concerns: these implements have been compared to bullets before, because it was as easy to drop a person to the ground unconscious, as it was to do the same with a bullet. They are prone to cause muscle bleeding, soft tissue damage and broken bones too easily.

I do not like and never use this specific sjambok of mine (# 3) during play sessions, due to its heavy, yet wobbly tip, impossible to control accurately.

Sjambok #4 is my hippo hide sjambok, custom made. Rhino hide sjamboks were also popular (rhino leather is similar to hippo leather, not stronger and tougher) until these animals became endangered, and it is now illegal to use them. Elephant hide sjamboks are very rare, but it is still legal to process and trade in them under special licensing.

Back to my beauty above. This particular one was not made in the traditional, African way. The manufacturer uses special soaking, treatment and varnishing methods, resulting in an almost resin-or amber-like appearance and ‘feel’. It is exceptionally heavy, and only after a year of weekly practice, my wrist became strong enough to not droop while wielding it, and before I could maneuver it with the same level of accuracy as the cane. These guys are difficult to obtain and pricey. They’re used mostly on farms to control large cattle and on game farms on large, wild animals. They’re also used in the veld to easily kill a snake, by striking its head off or breaking its spine, without having to get close to the danger.

The following paragraphs were written by Mr. Conrad Hodson, used with his permission, to explain traditional ways of making sjamboks around these parts.

The word “sjambok” seems to cover quite a variety of heavy impact toys. Originally a single piece of rawhide cut or stretched to shape, ISTR it’s just a generic word for “whip” in a lot of Bantu (sic) languages. The simplest form is rawhide carved out of a very thick hide, especially hippo, rhinoceros or elephant. Cut to shape and left to dry, this makes a cane-like instrument, that basically works like a heavy cane. Like rattan, it’s moderately flexible.

Traditional hide-curing in most of Africa has been an oil-curing process, as opposed to vegetable tanning as was done in Europe and its colonies. The piece of hide is oiled, worked by hand or by beating it with sticks, and left out in the sun. This is repeated–a good many times if supple “leather” is wanted. The oiled leather can also be stretched during this process, and a long strip can be tapered by doing a lot of stretching at one end, and little or none at the other. It’s possible to make an unbraided, crackable single-tail this way, and these are also called “sjambok” in many areas. They are even rarer in the States than the cane-like ones.

AFRICAN HIDE SJAMBOKS & BDSM

I wouldn’t recommend using hide sjamboks that were made in the traditional African fashion…hide sjamboks seldom break the skin, but it does happen and such wounds are prone to infection.

My hippo hide sjambok can be used safely, without fear of such infection, because a different method was used during manufacturing. As mentioned above, it seldom breaks the skin—even when wielded at maximum force. The bum should be closely inspected after every set though, to detect signs of muscle bleeding and dangerous bruising. Play should be stopped immediately if it does seem as if the swelling of the stroke bruises has a gravelly/grainy texture, creating the impression they’re clumped in bundles on top of one another.

Judicial sjambok and caning session performed by Mistress Baton

For most hippo hide sjambok play recipients, the intensity of the pain and the unique sensation come as a surprise…the shape of the sjambok, similar to that of a cane, often creates an expectation that the intensity and sensation would be cane-like. However, instead it is ‘thuddy’; dull, very deep and much more painful.

When playing at hard/judicial severity, bruising and bruise coloring is instantaneous and the color here is a purplish-black.

The healing process is as dramatic as the initial bruising. Coloration of the bruises changes, resulting in very vivid and very deep marks, often spreading far beyond the original impact points.

African hide sjamboks can be used safely during BDSM play sessions, as long as impact occurs on the fleshiest body parts only (the buttocks) and as long as the Top keeps an informed eye on bruise/blooming progression.

Personally, I adore using African sjamboks, especially African hide sjamboks. They’re challenging and unique implements to wield, and for the bottoms, a unique challenge to endure; an intense pain to conquer.

In terms of the pain levels they cause, many consider them the most severe CP implement of them all.

Miss Buffy Brown announces the next Manchester (UK) Spanking Party

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Where? At Manchester (UK)
When? 21st February 11:00 am – 5:00 pm.
Cost? £150 for a half day (one session) with lunch; £250 for a full day
Lunch? There will then be a light lunch available from 12:45 to 1:30 pm. The morning only participants may stay for lunch and leave when the afternoon session starts. The afternoon participants may enjoy a light lunch at 1:00 pm prior to the afternoon session.
Ladies scheduled? Miss Buffy Brown (Domme), Mistress Eclipse (Domme), Miss Kitty, Miss Melissa Greyton, Miss Donna, Miss Melody, and Miss Sandra

The day will be split into two parts to cater to many interests although it is anticipated that most attendees will stay all day. The morning session will be 11:00 am – 1:00 pm and the main objective will be to punish wayward boys and those lacking in discipline. You may choose (negotiate) how you are dealt with and your desires will be agreed to via email prior to attendance. This will be approximately a 15-minute slot, and your punishments will be witnessed by the other miscreants and professional ladies.

The afternoon session will start at 1.30 pm and each participant will have a ’round card.’ There will be five Disciplinarians, and each gent will get 15 mins with each lady; a total of 75 minutes play time. You can negotiate how you spend your time. If you’re not playing, you may as this is an ‘open party.’ No doors will be closed. Unlike a traditional party, there is no opportunity to switch as the morning session will cater to the switches.

Please apply in writing to missbuffybrown@hotmail.com, and give as much detail as possible. Whatever your persuasion, Miss Buffy welcomes you.

Sultry Sunday: Mistress Rattan to blister Manhattan

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Today we turn from our focus on spanking models to an emphasis on a quite qualified Disciplinarian. Mistress Rattan is a stunning Toronto-based Disciplinarian who provides “a corporal fix for a corporate world.” She is fully capable and willing to address whatever ails you. Mistress states that “beyond that world are several more varied interests of mine including theatre, movies, music, literature, sports, and travel.” Truly an eclectic and well-rounded Disciplinarian. Dare you bare your soul – and other things – to her?

Mistress has announced that she will once again be in Manhattan on February 27 – 28, and can be contacted for “corporal fixes.” Cetainly there are may deserving subjects in New York who would benefit from a dose of Canadian discipline.

Contact Mistress via this link.

Sultry Sunday: Audrey Sugarsmak’s saga

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Audrey Sugarsmak

Audrey Sugarsmak is a Philadelphia-based switch who says she loves “to learn all about your deepest kinky desires and secret fantasies.” She will help you fulfill your spanking needs and is quite capable on either end of the paddle. Audrey admits to being “playful, teasing, flirtatious and witty, though [she does take] real discipline sessions quite seriously.”

Audrey has appeared often on Punished Brats’ videos where she is quite popular. Take a look.

 

Contact Audrey via the link above, email, or phone (484-252-9115). Be careful what you wish for!

She is winding up

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Will the shorts help?


Edit: Joanne Jameson winds up on Ed Lee at Nu West Leda (a blast – literally – from the past)

Redux: A new interview with Miss Jennifer

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Back on August 12, 2013 All Things Spanking posted an interview with Miss Jennifer. Having kept in touch with her over the years, we realized that her unique style and approach to discipline had continued to evolve, and that she had introduced several new things to her  offerings. So, we asked Miss Jennifer if she would be willing to chat with us again, and she graciously accepted.

ATS: Thanks for agreeing to do this interview, Miss Jennifer.

MJ: Oh no problem Mitch. I would always like to do an interview with you.

ATS: *Blushing* Why thank you, Miss Jennifer, and I with you.

ATS: You are doing more life coaching with spanking consequences or rewards I gather. Could you tell us about that?

MJ: Mitch, my practice is different than many of the other so called professional disciplinarians out there. Some are closet prostitutes and others are just masochists. However, like them, I also provide a service though it is non-sexual. That is not saying there can’t be fantasy involved, but, really, I am trying to empower people to be the best they can be. I am focusing on behavioral modification, different stress management techniques, and coaching across a wide range of issues that can vary from career, to personal life, to exogenous issues.

ATS: Do you prefer a “reason” to spank such as a bona fide misbehavior or failure to meet a goal? Do you need a reason?

MJ: Mitch, I love to spank because it can help people dealing with a wide range of issues. Certainly, when someone comes to me and we agree to a plan and then they fail to achieve a goal they are going to get it and I enjoy giving it to them because I know they will be better for it. But I don’t need a reason to spank because, for example, it is therapeutic and by definition there is a reason they are coming to me.

Something you also might find interesting, when people come for an initial session, I have rarely if ever not seen them for a second session. Honestly, the issue is getting people to come the first time, which is hard because this is perceived societally as such a fringe form of therapy. But it works! If it didn’t people wouldn’t keep coming back and write me the nicest testimonials. I have also noticed that more women are joining my site because they realize that it is not about sex, but rather problem solving and/or therapeutic.

ATS: You are now producing very informative and entertaining podcasts. How did this project come about?

MJ: My goal is to help people, but getting them to fill out an application and scheduling a visit to see me can be scary to some people – they don’t know who I am, what are they are going to get, or how it all works. I get it! I want people to know that I am just a normal person who is interested in helping people.

I decided that raising the veil on what I do through podcasts might be helpful to some. As well, I want to support the website and continue to add content for all people curious and interested in spanking. I actually ported my podcast content over to Patreon so that people can listen to my podcasts and a variety of ancillary content all the while helping to support all the exciting things I am doing to improve the website. Feedback has been great, and all my clients are asking when the next podcast is coming out. I try to do four or more a month. People are signing up and then we do a forum chat on the website where I answer questions.

ATS: You are fond of posting pictures of the places you travel and interesting meals you enjoy. What is your favorite cuisine?

MJ: Mitch I think you know I am Korean. What you might not know is that I love to cook. So Korean food is my favorite because the food choices I generally eat and make involve fish, vegetables and fruits, but I also like Italian, French and Peruvian.

ATS: Do you find differences in the type or style of spanking that is preferred in various countries?

MJ: Yes, there are some differences depending on what country you are talking about. But they generally tell me they don’t want it how it is done in their home, rather they want to experience Miss Jennifer’s way. I also find differences in the types of people and the reasons they come. No two people are the same, but many people of different cultures have similar needs and that is to be pushed or to have consequences. It is great that spanking can be a universal language for good – YES I WANT PEOPLE TO BE GOOD AND TO BEHAVE!

ATS: What about geographic preferences for implements?

MJ: I would say the same as above – MISS JENNIFER’S WAY!

ATS: From a tourist perspective (I know you love all your clients), do you have a favorite place to travel? Why?

MJ: I do love all my clients and that is what makes my travels so fun. I go to Korea annually because it centers me and is home. Honestly, when I travel, I find the best of each location. Many people just pick a city and do what I do in one place, but that is selfish – not all people can afford to travel to me and there are few if any people who can do what I do. Again, society has deemed this as taboo, but often because it is associated with child abuse. I do not see any clients under 18 EVER, and this is something that people opt for because it helps them. I know people will be bummed if I ever retire, but I am nowhere near that place and I really love what I do!

ATS: Where have you not been that you would like to visit? Bottoms do need time to prepare for your spankings.

MJ: Honestly, I have been all over the world and I would go anywhere for anyone if they need the therapy. I have yet to go to NZ and Australia. Funny –  Australia was once a prison colony so there must be a lot of bottoms that need a good whipping.

ATS: How tall are you?

MJ: 5.0″ tall.

ATS: You are petite. How do you deliver the power you are known to possess when spanking?

MJ: I really wonder why people are always concerned about it. Didn’t anyone ever tell you that the best gifts come in small packages? I may not look strong, but there is not a bottom out there that could withstand my power. People underestimating me is the best. I have had so many large clients think that it will be so cute to get a spanking from me. Ever seen a grown man cry? It is not a pretty sight, but they almost always come back – if they can take it. One guy didn’t think I could spank him long and hard. But, when the spanking started he was in tears, screaming like crazy into the pillow and hitting the mattress with his fist.

ATS: Have you recently added any particularly unique implements to your collection?

MJ: HAHAHA, Robbie just bought me a new implement when we were in London. It stings badly – all my clients now call it “The Robbie” and are not fans of his anymore. He does podcasts with me. But I am always on the hunt for new and exciting tools. Honestly the tried and true are still the best, but clients are always welcome to bring an implement for me to try out. Robbie also said he is on the hunt for something worse than a sjambok. I encourage it – always like to be on the cutting edge.

ATS: Thanks again for your time, Miss Jennifer. Do you have anything else you would like to add?

MJ: Yes, there are two things. Firstly, and honestly, as a society we need to demystify professional disciplinarians. Hopefully through this article, the podcasts, and my website, people can get truthful information on this therapy. It works…it hurts (a lot), but it works because people crave discipline and release.

The other thing is you still have not set up a session for yourself. Why? Thanks for asking and being willing to interview me.

ATS: Miss Jennifer, it is always a pleasure to chat with you. And, do I detect a little of your playful spirit in that last answer? Well, I have now communicated a proposed date to experience firsthand your style. Here’s a secret – I have never truly cried during a spanking. Will I? Oh, did I just dare you?

And for my readers, I will post an article of my experience with Miss Jennifer. This will be a first for me as I have always kept my peronal experiences off the blog. But, I sense you would be interested, so it shall be.


Sultry Sunday: Leia-Ann Woods

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This week we focus on Leia-Ann Woods who is a London-based spanking enthusiast. She has appeared in many videos, and is an erudite, experienced, and very accomplished practitioner of the “art.” In Leia-Ann’s own words:

“I love to feel traditional corporal punishment, even if I must suffer the humiliation of having my panties taken down…”

Switching perspectives, Dr. Leia-Ann will diagnose and prescribe the cure for your ailment. Her treatments are direct, effective, and applied with no anesthesia. Failure to follow doctor’s orders are not tolerated. After all, no pain no gain to borrow an axiom from exercise buffs. Be careful what you wish for as Leia-Ann states that she:

“… found a love of switching in recent years, enjoying dishing out corporal punishment in many roles from the domestic right up to judicial level.”

Leia-Ann also hosts the Bottoms Up Spanking Club where she and her associates aim to run a party with a difference. The approach is unique. Link to the site to read all about it.

It is All Things Spanking’s pleasure to feature Leia-Ann Woods. Her videos can be seen at:

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